Skater Kid

There are some common questions I have been asked over the past three years in relation to autism and my son. One common question I like being asked is whether my child has any special skills, interests or talents.

Many people with autism have a deep interest in certain topics or activities. My son is a person with passionate interests! Sometimes these interests are referred to as obsessions, depending on how they are perceived. Autism expert Paula Kluth writes in her book ‘You’re Going to Love This Kid!’, that people with autism might be commonly interested in electronics and transportation, but some interests may be more unique like those of Sean Barron, a man with autism, who has a great interest in the number 24, and a fascination with dead-end streets. Fascinating fascinations!

My son loves numbers and the beach, he is good at directions and amazing at technology. Kiddo’s number one enduring passion to date however is riding on his scooter at the skate park. Riding the scooter is a fairly mainstream interest these days for boys (and a few girls) who like to push the limits. Having a more mainstream interest does help a lot with inclusion. My son’s passion of choice has certainly been embraced, encouraged and managed by my hubby and myself. Sometimes the ‘managing’ part has been a challenge for me…my son is FAST and FEARLESS! I definitely have a few extra grey hairs from it all but I am grateful my kiddo (and my hubby) love this activity. My hubby has his own scooter and rides with my son. I now know about quarterpipes, half pipes, bowls and ramps. I know what qualifies as a great skate park and which ones should be avoided. I also know what to look for in a decent pair of skate shoes, skate clothes, scooters, wheels and helmets.

This skatepark-ing passion has swept up our little family and has taken us pretty much all over the metro area, into the countryside, down south and was even incorporated into an overseas trip to the USA earlier this year. I’m not sure how long this passion will last, but for now my son has found something that makes him happy, that he is good at, and that makes the other skater-kids think he is AWESOME.

These are some of my favourite pics from our recent skate-park adventures! Brownie points to those who can pick the Las Vegas Skatepark…think hot…

Advertisements

9 thoughts on “Skater Kid

  1. Those are great pics! There’s a really cool book you can get that lists all Australian skate parks and rates them. It’s small so you can carry it around easily, ours is very well worn!

  2. Identity told me about your blog yesterday, just reading through, and its amazing how you write in such detail, This seems to come natural to you, I have just kept reading and reading.,
    from Hayley, mother of 6yr autistic daughter

  3. I have a 6 year old autistic son who also LOVES scooters. This is a faily new passion that only started after Christmas. He’s been taking lesson at our local indoor park and wants to go every night for open skate. Just like you, I’m so happy he has a mainstream activity that he loves and also allows him to socialize. He is usually the youngest boy there, but the older ones all love and adore him. Anyways, it’s neat to read about your family and how much is resembles mine! I never thought a skate park would be so beneficial to my son. Our lives have completely changed over the past few months. Thank you for sharing your story!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s